Explorations in Deliberate Living

Field Notes on Travel, Philosophy, and Life

Hey! I’m Ethan.

I help people wake up from our cultural dream, live as authentic expressions of themselves, and feel the wonder and mystery of existence.

Here you’ll find:

A curious collection of wisdom, wonders, and ways — in your inbox once a month.

May include: ideas, articles, photos, quotes, books, poems, albums, videos, how-to’s, and in-person possibilities the world round.

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Quotes from the Bookshelf:

  • "We are more struggling to survive than to thrive, more just “getting through” or trying to get to the top than finding out what is really at the top or was already at the bottom."

    — Richard Rohr, Falling Upward

  • "It’s the job of dice therapy, like the job of revolution in the world as a whole, to enlarge free territory."

    — Luke Rhinehart, The Dice Man

  • "We take a handful of sand from the endless landscape of awareness around us and call that handful of sand the world."

  • "Are you so busy getting to the future that the present is reduced to a means of getting there?"

    — Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now

  • "People don’t want to be millionaires—they want to experience what they believe only millions can buy."

    — Tim Ferriss, The 4-Hour Workweek

  • "Your only obligation in any lifetime is to be true to yourself. Being true to anyone else or anything else is not only impossible, but the mark of a fake messiah."

    — Richard Bach, Illusions

  • "And it is true that everywhere dangers and difficulties are exaggerated by the local people, if only as a good excuse for extortion or malingering: one must go oneself to know the truth."

    — Peter Matthiessen, The Snow Leopard

  • "In the 21st century, religion isn’t the opium of the masses — being entertained without being engaged and challenged is."

    — Caveat Magister, Turn Your Life Into Art

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Powerful symbols and a philosophical coffee table book.

17 Ideas That Changed My Life - Coffee Table Edition
$25.00

17 Ideas That Changed My Life is a philosophical coffee table book that explores how ideas aim our awareness, construct “our world,” and offers 17 ideas that have fundamentally shaped my own lens on life.

After a decade of exploring ideas — across years of travel, hundreds of books, and good soaks in many cultures — it’s a photo-heavy homage and collection of the most profound and useful ideas I found.

Designed to hit hard and be beautifully actionable, each idea comes with a striking quote, short read, and “Lenscrafting” exercise for crafting the idea into your lens on life.

Some of the 17 Ideas That Changed My Life include:

  • Walk to Understand the World

  • Freedom Means Living By Your Own Rules

  • Surface Area for Serendipity

  • Group Dreaming Apes

  • Expand Your Worldview

Printed on thick, sustainably-sourced, 10.75''x8.25'' card stock and spiral bound — it’s as beautiful a thing to hold in hand as it is to engage with your awareness.

In This Together Bumper Sticker
$1.00

A $1 bumper sticker for all who live on a blue-green ball of life miraculously afloat in the void of space.

Planetary togetherness is fresh perspective. It wasn’t until 1967 that we captured an image of the whole Earth from space, exposing our collective awareness to the striking truth of our celestial situation. Societies, religions, conceptions of self — all were formed long before this higher perspective could be perceived.

In a culture of imagined divisions and self-generated crises, it’s time we bring our plain-to-see togetherness to the fore of our awareness. And what simpler way to do so than a symbolic, perspective-expanding bumper sticker crafted from the iconic Earthrise image?

Each 11”x3” bumper sticker costs $1 (plus $7 for packaging and shipping by yours truly).

Why pay $8 for one, when you could grab three for $10, or twenty for $27 to share with your fellow riders on spaceship Earth?

Memento Mori Coin
$20.00

This coin is a catalyst for better life.

Imprinted with “memento mori,” Latin for “remember death,” it serves as a pocketable reminder that you will one day die.

For thousands of years — cross-culturally, from Stoics to Buddhists to Christians — people have contemplated death with varying uses, but for the ultimate purpose of living a better life.

Today, we can do the same.

Weighing a perfect 1oz, this pure copper coin is light enough to carry in your pocket, yet heavy enough that you won't forget its there. Across time, it will age to look like mine (seen in the last photo).

Boldly imprinted with “memento mori,” a laughing skeleton, four hourglasses, and an owl (which sees the light in night's darkest hour), it’s a perfect, pocketable reminder to hold you close to all of death's unsung extraordinary benefits.

The coin is packaged and shipped by yours truly in a burlap pouch with a note introducing the practice to its recipient.